My Husband Who Set 50/50 Responsibility Rule Is Now Defaulting It. What Should I Do?

My Husband Who Set 50/50 Responsibility Rule Is Now Defaulting It. What Should I Do?

This story was posted on the Tell It All page and narrated about a woman married to a husband who wanted to share everything 50/50 when it comes to responsibility, but later on, the man lost everything and tried to default on the 50/50 rules set by himself. Read the full story below and tell what this worried woman should do.

below is the full story

Admin, kindly approve Folks Let me know if I am wrong or right. A week after my wedding, my husband sat me down and told me that from now on we will share everything equally (bills, food, future kids fees). I was speechless because my dad never did such, and my mom only helps when the money he gives her is not enough or he is out of work.

So we share everything. His dad came for a visit and told him that he didn’t know how to go about it and that wives are there to help when their husbands can’t provide or they add up to what their husbands give. He didn’t take the advice. I had my shop before I married him. Even if I don’t have him, he will be upset and on my neck to pay.

There was an empty shop next to mine, and I wanted to add it to my shop. At that time, he was doing so well in his business that I asked him to help me out, but he refused. All I saw and heard was that he bought a car for his sister. So my three brothers, who were based outside with their wives, were the ones who helped me rent the shop and fill it up.

His sister’s husband introduced him to some business; honestly, when he told me, I told him not too, but he went ahead and said it was all lies. He lost his money and a loan from the bank. He sold his car. This month I asked him to pay for his part of 50/50, and he told me he doesn’t have any money, not even a coin, to give. I should pay it all. When he gets back on his feet, he will pay me back. I told him there was no way he should bring his part. As I am talking to you, the food, water, and prepaid are off. He was so upset, telling me what the use of me is if I can’t help him in times of hardship. I am a very cheerful giver and very kind, but what he did to me has turned me into what he is seeing now.

Am I wrong for insisting he pay his part or acting the way I am acting?

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